The city-state of Singapore is a melting pot of Chinese, Malay and Indian influences. This is one of the most popular destinations in South East Asia, albeit one that is seen as a closed book when it comes to sex.
Singapore is notoriously traditionalist in its views of sex, homosexuality and one night stands. And yet it also houses Geylang; one of the most famous red light districts in the world. Similarly, Orchard Road is legendary for its shopping options… but it also has a tower referred to as the Four Floors of Whores. What gives?!
In this guide, we’ll peek inside the Singapore sex scene. We’ll look at how easy (or tough) it is to pick-up Singaporean women, as well as the various adult services on offer for those willing to pay for their thrills.
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Attitudes to Sex
The attitude towards sex in Singapore is largely conservative and traditional.
It says much about the cultural view of casual sex that Singapore’s large red light district, and the entire prostitution industry, is held together by imported sex workers from countries such as Thailand, Vietnam, Korea and the Philippines.
Casual sex within the context of a one night stand is unusual amongst Singapore women. The act of prostitution itself is even rarer.
Public displays of affection are generally frowned upon in Singaporean society, as is nudity and any kinds of drunken debauchery.
In one famous incident, the clothes giant Abercrombie and Fitch had to remove an advertisement from their Orchard Road store as it featured a half naked man that a citizens group deemed was ‘immodest’.
If you are coming to Singapore with the intentions of having sex with some native Singaporean women, you will almost certainly have your work cut out.
However, paradoxically, if you are happy to have sex with Thais, Indonesians, Filipinas and other Asian ladies, you will be spoiled for choice.
Many of them are here on short term visas precisely for the reason of making money from sex tourists — before sending the capital home, where it is worth a lot given Singapore’s strong currency and higher cost of full service.
Singapore One Night Stands
If you want to have a one night stand in Singapore, chances are you will have a lot more luck by heading straight to the party scene.
Picking up girls in bars and hotel lobbies for a night of passion and then going your separate ways?
With a native… that’s just not going to happen.
As with many destinations, the younger generation is adopting a more liberal attitude towards one night stands and hook-ups.
If you want to find women who could feasibly be down to fuck on the first night, consider some of the following popular night spots.
Popular Night Spots
Here are some of the top bars and clubs for meeting women:
KPO Cafe Bar — 1 Killiney Rd, 239518 — The Central Orchard location means this place is full of office girls. [facebook]
New Asia Bar — Level 70, Equinox Complex, Swissotel The Stamford, 178882 — A largely expat crowd, where you’ll have much more luck picking up ladies.
Kinki — 70 Collyer Quay #02-02 Customs House, 049323 — Lively atmosphere without being so loud that you can’t hear the women you’re talking to. Considered a meeting place of the ‘working class’. [website]
Wine Bar, Zouk — 17 Jiak Kim St, 169420 — Friendly atmosphere, lots of mingling with locals in one of Singapore’s top social bars. Some stunning ladies here. [website]
Any suggestions for hidden bar and club gems around SG?
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Prostitution in Singapore
Prostitution in Singapore follows the lead of similar Asian destinations whereby the act of prostitution itself is legal, but it is illegal to make money from the earnings of a prostitute, or via a brothel.
It is a rather complicated situation, and the law is only partially enforced.
In reality, there are many brothels located in a controlled and semi-regulated region of Geylang. Prostitutes are required to undergo regular health checks and to carry a health card at all times.
While the police will occasionally crack down on brothels outside of designated red light areas, the reason is usually to control immigration rather than prostitution.
Prostitution in Singapore is an industry dominated by women from overseas. Migrant sex workers come from Thailand, Cambodia and Korea, as well as from Eastern Europe (Russia and Ukraine).
Many of these women will enter Singapore on temporary visas to make a fast buck from the lucrative escorting scene.
If a venue is suspected of hosting women who have overstayed their visas, this is when you are likely to hear of police raids.
It is rare to find local Singaporean women involved with the sex trade, other than the extremely high end escorts (who charge thousands) or the extremely poor.
Red Light Districts
The most famous red light district in Singapore is, of course, Geylang.
The small chaotic side streets of Geylang are home to hundreds of prostitutes who will loiter around openly seeking customers after night fall.
This area has a number of whore houses and brothels; some of which are tolerated by the law, others that are raided for various demeanours.
Geylang is where working class Singaporean men will go to buy sex. It also attracts plenty of tourists.
In contrast, the Orchard Towers on Orchard Road mark a different type of clientele and a higher concentration of after-work punters.
Orchard Towers is infamously known as the Four Floors of Whores, due to the adult entertainment that is available there. You’ll find a lot of Eastern European prostitutes here, as well as high-end Asian freelancers, and some of them would be considered ‘elite’ in how much they charge.
Other smaller red light districts around Singapore include Petain Road (for older hookers), Desker Road (just half a kilometre from Petain) and Keong Saik Road (with two long-surviving brothels located close to the Foong Kee Coffeeshop).
The brothels of Keong Saik Road are said to be a nostalgic experience for older customers. They are much the same today as they were at the height of their trade in the 1960s.
Each of the red light districts above is home to a number of street hookers.
They are easy to spot. The direct eye contact is a giveaway, especially compared to the reticence of most Asian women.
Street prostitutes can be found all over Geylang after dark. If you pick up one of these sex workers, you will most likely take her/him (there are male and trans prostitutes too) to what is known as a ‘love hotel’ — short-stay accommodation that turns a blind eye to sexual transactions and very quick departures.
Brothels, Escorts and Massage
We’ve compiled three separate guides to the most popular adult services around SG, including brothels, escorts and erotic massage parlours.
- Singapore Brothels Guide — A guide to the best brothels around SG.
- Singapore Erotic Massage Guide — A guide to the best erotic massage parlours.
- Singapore Escorts Guide — A guide to the local escorting industry, including local agencies, freelancers and call girls on social media.
The Price of Sex
The price of full sex in Singapore depends on what type of prostitute you are looking for.
If you settle for a street hooker, you can find full service for as little as S$30-50, especially around Petain and Keong Saik Roads. An average price for a street prostitute is around S$50-80, with the best of the bunch attracting over S$100.
This is roughly in line with what you would expect to pay at one of the many Geylang brothels.
If, however, you prefer a more intimate or relaxed experience, you might choose to hire an escort. These ladies can be hired as freelancers (advertising their own services) or via agencies (who will find a suitable match based on your needs).
Freelancers often cost around S$75-300, with charges based on how many hours you spend with her.
Hiring an escort is, after all, more of an ‘experience’. Not just a quickie.
Some of the elite SG escorts will charge well over S$500 per hour, at which point, you are probably already aware of the exact costs involved.
Like all major destinations, Singapore has a rich and diverse ‘luxury companion’ market.
Singapore is famous for having some of the harshest laws in the region when it comes to gay rights.
Despite this, the city-state maintains a healthy and eclectic LGBT scene with a number of popular gay bars, saunas and bathhouses.
Some of the top gay bars to look out for include:
- Tantric Bar — 78 Neil Road, Singapore
- Taboo — 65-67 Neil Road, Singapore
- Backstage Bar — 80 Neil Road, Singapore
- OUT Bar — 43 Neil Road, Singapore
- Dorothy’s Bar — 13A Trengganu Street, Singapore
As you might guess, Neil Road is very much the place to be if you are looking to explore Singapore’s lively gay scene.
Singapore Strip Clubs
Are there any good strip clubs in Singapore?
Strip clubs just aren’t a thing here.
You might find some of the seedier clubs advertising strip shows, but these are a far cry from the exotic showgirl displays that you’d associate to some Asian countries, e.g. Thailand’s go-go bars.
And they certainly won’t include full nudity.
If you are dead set on a striptease, you’ll have to pay for the thrill by hiring an escort who offers it as an extra service.
Whilst Singapore strip clubs are sadly nowhere to be seen, you will certainly find a few KTVs and adult karaoke venues. These are Japanese style hostess clubs, often frequented by Asian men looking to enjoy a relaxed evening of entertainment with some beautiful company (and their friends).
Sex is by no means a guarantee at a KTV, but it’s an open secret that many of the women working in these venues will have a price and a menu if they like you enough.
Casual Sex in Singapore
If you are a ‘pick-up artist’ or simply a tourist looking to enjoy some adult thrills with Singaporean women, you will have trouble finding casual sex in the bars and clubs.
Unless you head to the red light district, of course.
There’s always a one night stand to be had around Geylang.
Many men prefer to stay undercover by making their arrangements online.
There are a variety of classified and personals sites where you can buy sex, without having to cruise the crowded streets and bars.
Here are the three most popular sex classifieds in Singapore:
Unlike most countries, Singapore’s largest classifieds portal is not actually Craigslist. It’s Gumtree.
Unfortunately Gumtree doesn’t have a section for casual encounters, unlike Craigslist, which does.
While Craigslist SG isn’t as hyper-active as you’ll find it in other parts of Asia, you can still find a wide variety of M4W and W4M ads, along with everything in between, including: M4T, T4M, M4WM, W4W, M4M.
Locanto is another popular resource for anybody seeking adult thrills in Singapore.
The escort category has thousands of ads covering everywhere from Bedok to Bishan, Toa Payoh to Yishun. It’s just as popular as the adult massage portal, where you can find all kinds of sensual and erotic body rubs, both incalls and outcalls.
Backpage is notorious for its hit-and-miss adult services.
At times you feel like entire cities of sex workers are active on Backpage; flooding the site with brand new ads every 60 seconds.
You’d probably be right.
There’s a mind-boggling array of sex ads on here, with the majority advertising full service or GFE (girlfriend experience) around Orchard, Marina and the CBD.
In all cases, if you are going to use a SG classifieds site to get laid — especially BackPage! — be careful.
If it sounds too good to be true, it probably is.
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